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Why task initiation can feel disproportionately difficult, what the friction usually consists of, and what makes it easier.
Many adults find that starting tasks is harder than finishing them. The friction is real and is rarely about effort or willpower.
Most tasks require several small decisions before they can start: where to do it, with what, in what order, what counts as done. Each decision is a tiny cognitive cost. For some adults those costs add up before the task itself has begun. The result is the experience of being about to start for an hour.
Write the next physical action, not the goal. Reduce the number of decisions to one. Use a short timer as a starting cue. Borrow structure from a parallel worker or a check in. Treat starting as a different skill from finishing.
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