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Where masking and social anxiety overlap, where they differ, and why the difference matters for how people work with them.
Masking and social anxiety can look similar from the outside. They are not the same thing. Telling them apart often helps in deciding what kind of support is most useful.
Both can produce careful self monitoring in social settings. Both can leave a person exhausted after interaction. Both can include a kind of dress rehearsal before a conversation and a replay afterwards. The visible texture can look nearly identical.
Masking is the work of presenting in a way that feels socially expected, often associated with autistic experience. The motivation is to fit in or be readable. Social anxiety is anchored in the anticipation of judgement, often a specific feared outcome. Many adults experience both.
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