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Why these often get confused, where they differ, and why telling them apart helps.
Rejection sensitivity and low self esteem can both produce strong reactions to perceived negative feedback. They are not the same.
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Rejection sensitivity and Low self esteem can look similar, but they point to different patterns. Both can produce strong responses to perceived negative feedback. Use this comparison to name what fits your experience, not to diagnose or rule anything out.
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Both can produce strong responses to perceived negative feedback.
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Open the reflection toolRejection sensitivity is largely about the volume and speed of the reaction. The trigger can be small and the alarm can be loud. Low self esteem is more about the underlying belief that one is not worthy of good things. The two can coexist. They are not the same.
Working with self esteem is largely about beliefs and patterns over time. Working with rejection sensitivity is largely about turning down a system level alarm. Both are valid. The methods that help them are different.
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